We can spot others who give far too much in relationships. These are people who fatigue themselves attending endlessly to others. They receive little thanks, and the giving takes on a compulsive,…
Category: Relationships
Weaving the Past Into the Present for a Healthy Relationship
I have often observed a couple in an angry dispute, leaving the session understandably withdrawn and disconnected. I would expect them to stay that way until they worked it through, but something…
Reclaim Your Joy: How to Walk Away From Toxic Relationships
Are you ready to move forward? Source: Creator: Boonyachoat | Credit: Getty Images/iStockphotos This is part 2 of a two-post series. In our previous post, we described what makes a relationship toxic…
5 Reasons You’re Battling Over Household Chores
Source: Klimkin/Pixabay Battling over housework has to be one of the most common first-world problems that couples struggle over, whether it’s laundry, dishes, bathrooms, who does it, who doesn’t, or how it’s…
Sometimes, Love Is Just What We Do
When I broke my back this year, I spent many months in bed, staring out a three-foot-wide window at tiny slices of tree, bush, and sky. The view never varied except for…
Relationships: 3 Coping Styles, 6 Dysfunctional Combinations
Source: WenPhotos/Pixabay Everyone sees Marcus as a “nice guy.” But he tends to be over-responsible and knows he doesn’t like conflict—automatically accommodating when emotions rise, constantly walking on eggshells, and doing what…
Women and Hope for the Avoidant Man
Where have all the good men gone? If you are in your teens or 20s, this probably isn’t a big issue yet. But, as you push 40, you may find yourself swimming…
Are You Securely Attached to Yourself?
When it comes to your relationships, do you bend over backward to please others in the hope that they’ll love you in return? Do you play it cool and silence your needs…
Why Do You Love Me? The Quest for Certainty in Relationships
When one partner constantly seeks reassurance, it eventually creates distance instead of the desired closeness. Source: Arthur Brognoli/Pexels Do you demand constant reassurance from your romantic partner? Do you feel uncertain about…
Why Can’t We Talk (About Sex)?
In previous posts, I have described sexual agreements and some reasons why couples might benefit from discussing them explicitly. Here we take a look at one challenge couples might encounter in those…