In my last post, I had promised to “examine how our fundamental conceptions of ourselves—our granting to ourselves the possession of an enduring self—contribute to our anxiety.” The time has come to…
Category: Anxiety
5 Ways to Enjoy the Present When Worried for the Future
Source: Khorzhevska/Shutterstock Often, our minds paint grim images of the future. As a therapist, I see this every day. The everlasting ‘what ifs.’ ‘What if I lose my job?’ ‘What if my…
The Curve Balls of Change in Our Lives
Source: Dzmitry Dzemidovich / bigstock Recently, I’ve experienced a fair amount of change in my life, and I thought this would be a good time to think about change and how it…
Temperament, Peer Relationships, and Social Anxiety in Teens
Bitsko, R. H., Claussen, A. H., Lichstein, J., Black, L. I., Jones, S. E., Danielson, M. L., Hoenig, J. M., Davis Jack, S. P., Brody, D. J., Gyawali, S., Maenner, M. J.,…
Should I Tell My Doctor I’m Anxious?
Doctors are important people in our lives. They keep us healthy and safe; they are the experts we turn to when our physical health falters. But sometimes, we might feel intimidated in…
Learning to Cope with Illness Anxiety
Illness anxiety, while sometimes overwhelming and frightening, can be coped with. Some popular commonly-used therapeutic modalities may be effective in assisting clients who are struggling with intrusive and obsessive thoughts about their…
Changing the Direction the Worry River Flows
We are highly threat-sensitive creatures. Back in the day, our ancestors spent quite a bit of time running or fighting for their lives. They faced large, vicious predators as comparatively physically weaker…
Aging and Anxiety: Debunking Myths, Fostering Support
Source: Marcus Aurelius/Pexels As a professional dedicated to providing psychotherapy to older adults for the past 20 years, I’ve found that anxiety does not discriminate based on age. It’s a human experience,…
5 Things Not to Say to Someone Experiencing Anxiety
Anxiety is, in many ways, a psychological expression of pain. It lets us know that something is wrong in a way that is impossible to ignore. It hurts to see someone hurt….
Healthcare Through the Principles of Hospitality
Using Hospitality Principles to Reduce Healthcare Visit Anxiety Have you ever felt anxious or fearful about visiting a doctor? A hospital? Or a walk-in clinic? This should come as no surprise, given…