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Category: Anxiety
How to Stop Stressing Out About Unusual Body Symptoms
Source: Karonlina Grabowska/Pexels People with health anxiety tend to pay a lot of attention to their body symptoms. Sound familiar? It makes sense that if you are worried about your health, you…
The Myth of Laziness: Why High Achievers Feel Stuck
Have you ever called yourself lazy even though everyone around you seems to think you’re doing a lot? Many high achievers—students, professionals, busy parents—often tell me they are lazy. Despite their packed…
Not All “What Ifs?” Are the Same
Not All “What Ifs?” Are the Same
Gorging on Grit and Greatness
Feeding our bodies a daily dose of tough love in combination with the praise and promotion we get for attacking, fighting back, never giving up, and winning at any cost starves our…
How to Care Less Without Being Uncaring
Anxiety’s greatest trick is that it convinces us to care about and pay attention to everything, even things that, in the larger picture, do not necessarily matter. This can result in over-attention…
People Are Judging You And It Doesn’t Matter
Source: fizkes/iStock What are you not doing in your life because you are afraid of people’s judgments? How are these fears holding you back? Many people have at least some fears of…
What Animals Can Teach Us About “Living in the Moment”
It is interesting to consider the difference between animals and humans and how they respond to situations. One of the reasons I write for Psychology Today is because of the useful information…
Have a Hard Time Making Decisions? How to Be More Decisive
Source: TheDigitalArtist/Pixabay Like it or not, everyday life is a factory of decision-making: What to wear for a first date, whether to take the new job, whether to circle back to the…
Sorry, Not Sorry, but We Might Be Apologizing Too Much
There are many uses of the word sorry. There’s the genuine and heartfelt apology. We also know the sarcastic one that fuels an argument like igniter fluid (“So sorry I can’t read…